The Internet can be a dangerous neighborhood for children and teens. From cyber-predators to social media posts that can come back to haunt them later in life, the hazards can be frightening. Children may also unwittingly expose their families to online risks, for example, by accidentally downloading malware that could give cyber criminals access to their parents’ bank account or other sensitive information. Protecting children on the Internet is first and foremost a matter of awareness—knowing what dangers lurk and how to safeguard against them. Cybersecurity software can help protect against some threats, but the most important safety measure is communicating with your children.
Here are the seven greatest risks that kids face online:
According to Internetsafety101.org, 90 percent of teens who participate in social media have ignored bullying they’ve witnessed, and one third have been victims of cyber-bullying themselves. Social media and online games are today’s virtual playground, and that is where much cyber-bullying takes place. For example, children can be mocked in social media exchanges. Or, in online games, they or their “player characters” can be subjected to incessant attack, turning the game from an imaginative adventure into a humiliating ordeal.
The best foundation for protecting against cyber-bullying is to be comfortable talking to your children about what is going on in their lives, and how to stand up to bullies.
Sexual and other predators can stalk kids on the Internet, taking advantage of children’s innocence, abusing their trust and, perhaps, ultimately luring them into very dangerous personal encounters. These predators lurk on social media and game sites that appeal to children (the same virtual playgrounds where much cyber-bullying happens). There, they can exploit not only children’s innocence, but also their gift of imagination. “Let’s play pretend” is a common and healthy part of online gaming and interaction, but predators can use it as a hook to pull children in.
The FBI offers guidance in safeguarding against predators and other online risks to child safety. However, again, the best protection is to be able to talk to your children about what is happening in their lives.
- Posting Private Information
Children do not yet understand social boundaries. They may post personal information online, for example in their social media profiles that should not be out in public. This might be anything from images of awkward personal moments to their home addresses.
If your children are posting in public view, you can also see it—and there’s no harm in reminding them that if Mom and Dad can see it, so can everyone else. Don’t snoop, but talk to your kids about public boundaries.
Phishing is what cybersecurity professionals call the use of emails that try to trick people into clicking on malicious links or attachments. (“Hey—thought you might like this!”) This can also be done with malicious text messages (then it’s called “smishing”).
Phishing emails and smishing texts can pop up at any time, but the cyber criminals who devise them keep watch on sites that are popular with children, and gather information such as email addresses and friends’ names to use in their scams. Teach your children to avoid clicking on emails or texts from strangers and to be wary of messages that claim to be from their friends but have no genuine personal message attached.
- Falling for Scams
Children are probably not going to fall for Nigerian princes offering them a million dollars, but they might fall for scams that offer things they may prize, such as free access to online games. Young people are easy marks for scams because they have not yet learned to be wary. As with phishing, cyber criminals can use sites popular with children to identify potential victims, and then promise them something in turn for what they want—like parents’ credit card information.
For young or old, the best protection against scams is knowing that if an offer sounds too good to be true, it probably isn’t true. Teach your children to be leery of online offers that promise too much.
- Accidentally Downloading Malware
Malware is computer software that is installed without the knowledge of permission of the victim and performs harmful actions on the computer. This includes stealing personal information from your computer or hijacking it for use in a “botnet,” which causes sluggish performance. Cyber criminals often trick people into downloadingmalware. Phishing is one such trick, but there are others—such as convincing victims to download purported games—that can be especially beguiling to children.
As with scams, educating your children is the best protection, but antivirus software and related security protections can help safeguard your child’s computer against any malware that sneaks into it. In addition, many Internet security products also include specific parental controls that can help you set a secure framework for your children’s online activities.
- Posts that Come Back to Haunt a Child Later in Life
The Internet does not have a delete key. Anything your child puts online is nearly impossible to remove later. But teenagers in particular are not thinking about how a future boss—or, one day, a prospective spouse—might respond to “amusing” images or other personal content that they post to their social media profiles or other websites.
Explain to your teens that they might change how they wish to portray themselves online—but that the Internet won’t let them.
The Internet can pose dangers to children. It can also open doors of wonder for them that previous generations could not even have dreamed of. Help make sure that your children experience the joys of an online world, not its hazards.